Sometimes I forget how old I am.
I don’t mean that I can’t remember the number. It’s just that sometimes I will be with 40- or 50-somethings and will think for a moment that I am one of them. And then I will find myself confronted by a mirror.
My memory is quickly restored.
Here’s the thing. Although I turned 75 last week, my psychic age, as I have written before, is 45 or 50. You can see where the confusion comes in.
There was a moment, though, last week when I was starkly confronted by my age. My husband and I were preparing for a trip to Hawaii to celebrate my birthday. The day before the trip, I found myself uncommonly tired while packing. The travel day was long, and on our first full day in paradise, I was horrified to find myself too exhausted to do much of anything. I was beside myself. It seemed that upon turning 75, I was falling off a cliff straight into decrepitude. Were my traveling days over?
Happily, the next day I woke up with a cold. Happily? Well, it wasn’t that I wanted to be sick; it was just that I was delighted to realize I wasn’t on the doorstep of assisted living. Soon, the blessed sun dried up my cold, and I was back to feeling like myself again.
So, I am pleased to report that I am still feeling pretty good. Can I make this time last? Is there an elder equivalent to the teenage years, I wonder? A last fling before the doddering years? I intend to find out.
Still, there is no doubt that time is passing quickly. Five minutes ago, I wrote a post about turning 70, and now I find that I have, improbably, turned 75. In that earlier post, I quoted from James Taylor’s song, The Secret ‘O Life. Please indulge me while a re-share a few of the lyrics:
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time
Any fool can do it
There ain’t nothing to it
Nobody knows how we got to
The top of the hill
But since we’re on our way down
We might as well enjoy the ride
. . .
Isn’t it a lovely ride?
Sliding down
Gliding down
Try not to try too hard
It’s just a lovely ride
. . .
Everything I feel about turning 75 (along with the full lyrics to the song) was included in my post about turning 70. Things haven't changed much. I may be on the downward side of the hill, but as was the case five years ago, my life is rich and full. In fact, it is fuller, as I have gained four grandchildren in the intervening years. They are helping me with my sliding and gliding skills, and keeping me young, even as they wear me out. They certainly know how to put everything into the ride.
And so may we all, regardless of age, and in spite of the many challenges along the way, enjoy the ride. And may we lend a hand to those who are finding the ride bumpy and rough.
What else is there for it?
